Aftercare

The care and attention given to partners after a scene, to help everyone settle physically and emotionally.

Aftercare is the time and attention partners give each other once play ends. It can be physical, like water, warmth, a blanket and rest, or emotional, like reassurance, closeness and quiet conversation. Intense play can leave people feeling vulnerable or drained, so aftercare helps everyone return to an even keel. What each person needs varies, which is why it is usually discussed during negotiation. Aftercare matters for dominant and submissive partners alike.