A pre-agreed word or signal that immediately pauses or stops play, used because normal words like no may be part of the scene.
A safeword is a clear, agreed signal that lets anyone stop or slow down play instantly. Because words like no or stop are sometimes part of role play, a neutral safeword removes any ambiguity. A common system uses traffic light words: red to stop, amber to check in or ease off, green to continue. If someone is gagged or unable to speak, a non-verbal signal is agreed instead. Honouring a safeword without question is a fundamental rule of the scene.
Frequently asked questions
What is a common safeword?
Many people use the traffic light system: red means stop, amber means slow down or check in, and green means all is well. Any clear, easy to remember word works.
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